Porn, Strip Clubs And Your Daughters

I hope everyone had a nice, peaceful Christmas! I say “peaceful”, because some of the families that I know could easily be the subject of the next Jerry Springer Show. Anyway, let’s hope the new year brings joy, hope and peace to everyone! Now on to what’s weighing on my heart.
Until a person reaches a certain level of spiritual maturity, certain things may not register. Meaning that, when a person sees things through the eyes of the world, evil may not appear all that evil. Does that make sense? I know in my own personal life, there were certain things I would watch or listen to that I didn’t think were bad at all! However, should I see or hear any of those things now, it would make my skin crawl, and my stomach turn at the thought of ever thinking those things were acceptable!
Upon observing society, by watching tv, listening to the radio, I’ve come to the conclusion that people don’t value people. Heck, most young women don’t even value themselves! They have no idea that they’re beautiful and that they deserve to be treated like a fine piece of china; not a paper plate.
If you have, or know someone who has a nice set of China, then you know that most people have it displayed in a cabinet, where it stays clean and protected, until the perfect time arises. On that glorious occasion, they take the beautiful china out of the cabinet, and enjoy using it for the purpose in which it was created. Once they finish enjoying the china, they clean it up, making sure to handle each piece carefully (because fine china is fragile), and place it back in the cabinet where it remains clean and protected until next time. For those occasions that are not so special, or just for fun, people tend to use paper plates. When they finish enjoying the paper plate, they toss it in the trash, without a thought of cleaning it up or saving it for another time, such as it was designed.
Men, every single female on the face of the earth is to be treated like fine china, not a paper plate! It’s NOT ok to use women for sex, even if they’re willing! Because the fact of the matter is, God created women to be led by men! Will a woman answer for sexual sin? Yes! But you men who manipulated a woman into having sex outside marriage will answer even more!! And it’s NOT ok to watch porn, or look at dirty magazines, or go to strip clubs! EVER! I’ve even heard women say stuff like “Boys will be boys” or “That’s men for you! They ALL do stuff like that.” As if it’s no big deal. As if it’s expected. And maybe in today’s society it is! The fact remains, however, that IT’S WRONG! And men don’t have to do those things just because they’re men! If you’re a woman, it should disgust you if your man is watching porn or going to strip clubs! If he doesn’t value women, you’re not worth much to him either.
For those of you men (or women) who think nothing of watching porn, or ogling at women on stage half naked or completely naked, and have daughters, grand daughters or nieces? Maybe, with any luck, one of them will grow up and decide to become a porn star or a stripper! How awesome would that be?! I mean think about it! Some perv would get to pleasure himself while watching your baby girl have wild, kinky sex with some random, well endowed guy, or guyS PLURAL! OR, they could stuff dollars in her g-string at some sleazy club! What a proud daddy you’d be! You could invite all your friends over to watch her debut with you, or invite them to the local strip club to show off daddy’s little girl! If you happen to have the privilege of seeing your girl on the big screen, you could even drag out the fine china for your buddies to eat off of as they watched! Just how ok would you be with that?!
Most likely the thought of that horrifies you. If it doesn’t, then you’ve got even bigger, more sickening problems! Stop reading now and seek professional help! If it does sicken you, think about it this way. Every woman you use for sex, or get your rocks off by watching them in porn, is someone’s daughter, grand daughter, or niece. They’re real people who were created to be treated like fine china, but are being used and tossed in the trash like a paper plate, and one day it could be your daughter someone is using!
Ladies, if you’re eagerly giving yourself away to men, then you need to realize you’re more than a paper plate! And any man who’d use you in any way, other than to treat you as fine china, doesn’t deserve the precious gift you’ve unwrapped for him. You’re beautiful! God did not create you to be used! He created you to be cherished and taken care of as if you were fine china!
Ladies and gentlemen, sex was created for MARRIAGE! Ladies, if you’re giving it up to keep a man? He’s using you like a paper plate! Don’t get me wrong, he could possibly care about you, or even (in his own way) love you, but his desire to have sex with you is purely selfish! Especially if your man knows Jesus! If your man doesn’t have a relationship with Jesus then I promise you HE DOESN’T HAVE A CLUE how to love YOU! And the same goes for you ladies! If you don’t have a relationship with Jesus, it’s impossible to truly love another man. Heck! You really don’t even know how to love your own children without knowing the love of Jesus Christ!
Ladies, if you have NO idea how much you’re worth, or just how beautiful you really are, start asking God to allow you to see yourself the way He sees you! Men, if you’re using women for sex, or watching porn, just remember, one day some dude could be doing that to your daughter! Plus, you’ll answer for your sin and hers because you’re supposed to be leading her! If you don’t know Jesus as your savior, start seeking Him so that you CAN do things the right way, and so that you CAN see people the way God intended for you to see them. All people are important! ALL people have value! Even those who are in porn.
Anyway, happy Monday!

Are not five sparrows sold for two pennies? And not one of them is forgotten before God. Why, even the hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear not; you are of more value than many sparrows. Luke 12:6-7

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